SINGLE LADIES, THIS IS FOR YOU!

ARE YOU A LADY/WOMAN, STILL SINGLE AND WAITING, OR IN COURTSHIP? HERE ARE SOME GUIDES FOR YOU:

1. Don't be too selective: Being too selective might be too dangerous at times. It's funny hearing so many ladies insisting that, their husband must be tall, rich or handsome. To be on the saver side, you just have to be contended with the word, 'average'. The important thing is the guy's seriousness about you, which would determine either his love to you is genuine or not.

2. Shun pride: Humility is one of the key characters that many young men are looking for in ladies. Respect your fiance, his family members, and friends too. And if you haven't got a fiance, respect every person that comes your way, either male or female, because you don't know if anyone is examining you and your characters.

3. Say "NO" to premarital sex: You must avoid submitting yourself to a man who has not yet married you legally. If he truly loves you, he would be patient with you till after your wedding for sex. Never must you molest yourself because you want to please a man! It ridicules you.

4. Learn to pray on your own, but seek counseling: It's not compulsory to visit the whole Pastors in the universe before knowing the mind of God concerning you, you can always pray on your own, and God will give you the genuine revelation. Jeremiah 33:3.

However, you need to seek counseling from the department in your Church, saddled with such responsibility, or whoever is clearly and genuinely a role model in the marital circle. Proverb 19:20.

5. Be productive and visionary: Almost eighty percent of single men are aspiring to spend the rest of their lives with women who have something great in their brains. As a young lady, though, you might not be employed by any organization or government yet, but the man wants to see that you have visions, and that you are not planning to be a liability on him after marrying you.

6. Be generous: Either you are in courtship or still waiting, even as a married woman, make sure generosity is a key part of your characters, it's one of those things that makes a woman virtuous.

7. Stop playing games: This is where so many ladies of our generation get it wrong, thinking they are smart, not knowing that almost 80%  of men are good at detecting or suspecting women who are double dating. And the risky aspect of it is that, the man might just keep mute and pretend as if he doesn't have knowledge of your game. So, the best attitude is to be reserved and stop selling your body to every man that comes your way.

8. Be honest, don't lie: If you are in a courtship or still waiting, it's good for you to note that the fastest way to ridicule yourself before a man is to be telling lies. It presents you as a fake, dubious and dishonest person. No man ever likes such attribute.

9. Mind the calls you receive: If you are in serious courtship, be very careful about the calls you receive, especially when you are with your fiance and such calls are from your ex suitor or suitors. This can cause the man to lose his trust in you, and can cost you the relationship as well.

CONCLUSION:

If you have read this far, it means you are really serious about the above subject and also ready to learn more. Kudos to you for that! But the summary of it all is that, before you can get hooked to a responsible man, you too must be generally responsible, because nobody will take responsibility for your failure, but you.

Written and published by,

Odunayo Ogunmodede

isaacodunayo35@gmail.com