1. Love her: The pillar of every marriage is love, without it, no union can thrive. Therefore, to get your wife's attention, you must love her.
2. Give her sense of belonging: Let her feel important in every department of the family. Even if you have to challenge any of her domestic decisions, let it not be in the presence of the children or anybody.
3. Respect her: Respect is reciprocal. To get her maximum attention, you must give her her due respect.
4. Be transparent: Don't be too secretive. Avoid hiding things for her if you really want transparency from her as well.
5. Honour her in public: Some are in habit of insulting their spouses in public places, this is barbaric! You must respect and be proud of her anywhere, and vice versa.
6. Let her be part of decision making: Carry her along in every decision that has to do with the family, regardless of the fact that you are the major decider of the family.
7. Love her family: Don't hate your in laws, but love and embrace them. It's a norm, she would reciprocate. She must.
8. Give her attention: Both of you must have sufficient time for each other, it's very important. That's the best way to grow in the union.
9. Love your children: Naturally, the love of your children must be strong in your mind, because you are related by blood. Good relationship between you and your children will surely have influences on your marriage. Most women love it!
10. Fidelity: Be faithful to your spouse. This seriously strengthens love and promotes good relationship.
Odunayo Ogunmodede,
isaacodunayo35@gmail.com, 07033504020
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